If your advisor, or potential advisor, has a poor attitude toward women,
I suggest staying anonymous and asking the people in this newsgroup for
suggestions on other people to study under.
I observe that staying with an advisor with a bad habit will very probably
get you jobs or postdocs with people with the same bad habit. I understand
the problem of wanting the job or the knowledge and putting up with a bad
habit because if you report the person (expletive deleted) then you lose no
I think that it is not worth your career to stay at a place. It may be worth
the time, effort, & perhaps separation from significant others to be able
to move on in your field. This is an individual's choice.
Again, I suggest posting here (and perhaps elsewhere) to find an appropriate
D. Ewing ...stranger than fiction.